Rolling Hills Baptist
2005 Braselton Hwy
Buford, GA 30519
January 2006
   

"Blogging has actually become a teen's own reality show able to be viewed by the world."
  Do you know what a blog is? If not, you might want to ask your teen. Blogging has become a popular way for teens to communicate their life to the world. According to Intelliseek, it is estimated that 8 million teens blog on a regular basis (usatoday.com). Websites like xanga.com and myspace.com allow anyone of any age to set up a mini website which posts pictures, videos, interests and just about anything else you can think of. These sites are free and only take about five minutes to set-up. Blogging has actually become a teen's own reality show able to be viewed by the world. One of the problems with blogging is that many teens are putting personal information on their site, raising security and safety questions for parents and police. How do you know your teen has a blog? First of all, ask them. Talk about what information they are giving out on their blog site. Remind them that they are NOT anonymous, and what they say could be potentially read by thousands of other people. You want to respect the privacy of your teen, but for accountability purposes, it would be smart to check on a regular basis what your son or daughter is putting on this site. Just a side note, reading the blogs of your teen's friends will give you great insight into things teens deal with on a regular basis and more specifically, what is going on with your teen and their friends. If you suspect your teen is keeping you in the dark about blogging, check www.google.com. It's possible to search names, nicknames, cell phone numbers, screen names, IM and e-mail addresses. You could discover a blog or personal page that makes your teen vulnerable. The bottom line is that parents must be proactive in protecting their teen through communication and prayer. Blogging in and of itself is not a bad thing, but make sure your teen is educated and smart about what they say in their on-line diary read by the world.
Christmas Musical

Seeing 11 students in the Christmas musical was awesome.

The opportunity to be in the adult choir is a great one. But there are some guide lines to follow and here they are;
- You understand ANY youth activity takes priority over choir.
- You must be active in and a member of the church. (i.e. Attend SS and Wednesday night regularly)
- You must have a ride home at 9 pm on Wednesday
- You must attend 70% of the practices – Wednesdays at 8 pm
- You must behave.
We are working together to make sure this is best possible opportunity for all those who want to part of the Adult Choir.

Practice starts again on January 11th at 8:00 pm

Jeff and Terry

Know how computer generation teens feel about communication and its importance:

AOL asked teenagers in a survey who they were more likely to share their feelings with?

51% - Parents
49% - Blogs

(aol.com)



Do you think a school -- even a private school -- has the right to force students to erase profiles and blogs from the internet?

87% - No, freedom of speech.
13% Yes, for safety reasons.

(teenpeople.com)


Whether or not your teen is blogging, here are some questions to find out some important insights into the world of blogging.

1. Why do you think teens (and adults for that matter) like to blog?

2. Teens are giving out a lot more information about themselves than ever before on their blogs. Do you see any red flags for giving out personal information? Why or why not?

3. If you were reading a blog and something hurtful was said about you or a friend, how would you react? Would you handle it yourself, or would you feel comfortable talking to us (parents) about it?
Pray that:

1. Your teen will be careful what they write and say to people and "friends" over the Internet.

2. God will protect your family from information on the Internet that is harmful and destructive.

3. God will give your teen wisdom and the desire to guard their heart, mind and eyes from what the enemy shows them every day.

4. You will fight and be proactive for the purity and holiness of your family.


Getting to know us.....Introducing Tim and Lisa Colburn
Tim & Lisa teach the 7th/8th grade and have been members for 5 years. They have been involved in the youth ministry team for over 4 years. Tim & Lisa are originally from Tuscaloosa Alabama. They have been living in the area for 15 years now. Tim has been employed by Flowers foods for 30 years and is the Director of Manufacturing at the Flowers Bakery of Suwanee. Lisa has been employed by Per-se Technologies for 15 years and is the Director of Operations for the radiology group. They have 2 children. Matthew is 20 & is employed by Per-se technologies full time & attends Lanier tech. Lauren is 17 & a junior at Mill Creek HS where she is a varsity basketball cheerleader & a member of the girls track & field team. They also have a 95 pound Lab named Dixie who thinks she is the baby of the house. Being from Tuscaloosa the Colburn’s favorite pastime is of course University Alabama Football!


Did you know...

* Nineteen percent of online teens have blogs and 38 percent read them. About 62 percent of blog-reading teens solely read friend's blogs while 36 percent read postings from both friends and blog authors they don't know. (whatsnextblog.com)

* Myspace.com, a blogging community, has exploded to 34 million users in just two years — and is dominated by 14 to 34-year-olds. (usatoday.com)

* Older school-age girls with online access were most likely to keep a blog. About a quarter of girls, ages 15 to 17 did so, compared with 15 percent of boys in that age group. (ap.org)

* A study by Clemson University found that 18% of 3,700 middle schoolers had experienced cyber bullying of some kind in the last two months (July-August 2005). Most of the online perpetrators and victims are girls. (time.com)





This page is designed to inform and educate parents and is not meant to endorse any product, music, or movie.
Our prayer is that you will make informed decisions on what your student listens to, wears, and sees!


After 10 years in the music business, Jaci Velasquez has many successes including nine albums in both English and Spanish and over 3 million albums sold. She has also received numerous awards in both the Christian and general market. Having recently gone through a divorce, Jaci is learning about God's grace and it is reflected in her album, "Beauty Has Grace." She co-wrote these songs, which is a first for her. The album is summed up in "Prayer to Love" as she sings, "Everyone is searching for love but the only perfect love is with God." jacivelasquez.com


Interested in the Winter trends of 2006...

* Velvet, scarves, fur and long sleeves sum up the winter trends for this year. Layering carries over from spring and fall but with thicker fabrics for warmth.

* Winter is filled with lots of bold colors. Purple is one of the hot new hues to check out for both men and women along with absolute black.
(mallofamerica.com)


Albums:
Oral Fixation, Vol. 2 - 11/2005

Live and Off the Road - 3/2004

Laundry Service - 11/2001
Background:
Colombian-born, Shakira became Latin pop's biggest female crossover artist since Jennifer Lopez. Her music is known for its aggressive rock-influenced approach, and she wrote or co-wrote nearly all of her own material on her newest album. Shakira began writing music, singing and playing guitar as a young child. Her albums were a huge hit in Latin America as well as Spain and even went platinum in the United States. She learned English and released MTV Unplugged which went platinum as well as winning a Grammy. sonicnet.com

What parents should know:
Shakira has a very sexy image and is seen in her videos where she wears skimpy clothing exposing much of her mid drift. She is known for her "hip-shaking and belly-dance moves."

Parent/Teen Q&A:
Shakira states, "I try to build my own boundaries. My boundaries are my family. They contain me." Q: What are boundaries? Do you think it is important to have boundaries? Why or why not? What boundaries do you have?



Should your teens start the New Year off with these films? You decide.
TITLE RATING RED FLAGS GENRE STARRING
Running Scared R For pervasive strong brutal violence and language, sexuality, drug content Action/Adventure Paul Walker, Chazz Palminteri
Bloodrayne R For strong bloody violence, some sexuality and nudity Horror Kristanna Loken, Ben Kingsley
Glory Road PG For racial issues, including violent epithets and mild language Drama Joshua Lucas, Tatyana Ali
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New Years Day
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6:30 Reality Check
Passionate Living "Pure Joy"

TLW Sign-up & Ring Sizing
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Parent Meeting for High School Ski Retreat after service.

Parent Connection for TLW informtion after service.

5:30 Small Group Bible Study
The 5 Love Languages for Teenagers
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6:30 Band Practice
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6:30 Reality Check
Passionate Living "Pure Joy"

TLW Sign-up & Ring Sizing
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Middle School Winter Retreat
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Middle School Minter Retreat


5:30 Small Group Bible Study
The 5 Love Languages for Teenagers
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6:30 Band Practice

Middle School Winter Retreat
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6:30 Reality Check
Passionate Living "Pure Joy"

TLW Sign-up & Ring Sizing

Student Life Camp $50 Deposit Due
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5:30 Small Group Bible Study
The 5 Love Languages for Teenagers
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6:30 Band Practice
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6:30 Reality Check
Passionate Living "Pure Joy"

TLW Sign-up & Ring Sizing
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H.S. Leadership Ski Retreat
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H.S. Leadership Ski Retreat
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H.S. Leadership Ski Retreat


5:30 Small Group Bible Study
The 5 Love Languages for Teenagers
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The insert this month is "Twas the Night Before Christmas...for Youth Ministry" By Marla Longoria. When I found this several years ago it set a picture so true. Pray for the hearts of the students and strength to serve. God has blessed this ministry greatly and we are going strong once again. Always remember the students are NOT the church of tomorrow but they ARE the church of today.

Recognizing that every individual is precious to God and is created for a unique purpose, THE ROCK Student Ministry exists to REACH non-believing students, to CONNECT them with other Christians, to help students GROW in their faith, and to provide opportunities for them to SERVE others, so that their lives will HONOR God.

Feel free to contact any of us at anytime with questions, concerns or comments.
Terry
h: 770-277-0377 c: 678-357-6064 e: terrytaphouse@rollinghillsbaptist.net